About me Sakura

πŸ’ Rin at a Glance πŸ’

Name Rin
Birthday August 14th
Class Project Manager
Habitat The Rocky Mountains
Sun β™Œ Leo
Moon β™‘ Capricorn
Rising β™‘ Capricorn
Familiar Party 1 dog + 2 cats
Main Interests Writing, roleplay, books, art, coding & witchcraft
portrait of Rin

I'm Rin! I live in the Rocky Mountains with a dog and two cats, work from home, and am probably happiest surrounded by books, art, music, interesting little objects, and entirely too many things I've decided are pretty enough to need a place in my house.

My aesthetics are constantly at war with each other. Half the time I'm dark fairy witch, the other half I'm mildly grunge "it" girl, and apparently both are allowed to live here. My desk is aggressively pink and looks like it belongs in one of those aesthetic TikToks, while my office is covered floor-to-ceiling in anime posters, figures, and a couple ball-jointed dolls. The rest of the house is full of dragons, fairies, wizards, tapestries, astral prints, boho designs, unicorns, and various witchy things. There's also a statue of Aphrodite in my bedroomβ€”I'm pagan (and a leo)β€”so really, subtlety was never an option.

I love reading, writing, art, cosplay, and the occasional cozy game or RPG. Fantasy romance is usually my weakness (yeah...I know), and I read a lot of Shojo manga too. Some favorites are My Dress-Up Darling, A Sign of Affection, and Fruits Basket. I like anime, although I don't watch it constantly; lately I've been watching things like Chainsaw Man, Frieren, and Witch Hat Atelier. I also play guitarβ€”or rather, I'm relearning after an accident kept me from playing for nearly two decades.

I'm a bit of a maximalist and genuinely enjoy shopping, which means I'm forever trying to maintain the delicate balance between "pleasantly full of fascinating things" and "dear god, this is a hoarder's house." When I'm not happily nesting at home, I like long walks by the brook behind my place, yoga, rock climbing, swimming, wandering around old little shopping districts, and playing D&D with people I love. I'm the DM, which probably says something about me.

I'm LGBTQ, partnered, and polyamorous, so if I mention more than one partner somewhere on this site, don't worry-you haven't missed a plot twist- see more about that further down this page.

I have two college degrees in programming and experience with HTML, CSS, C++, and Java, although I also spent quite a while studying psychology. Psychology still fascinates me, especially the strange little mechanics behind why people think and behave the way they do. I'm intensely introspective and prone to analyzing my own thoughts, habits, flaws, and reactions in an attempt to understand myself better and become the sort of person I actually want to be. This can occasionally turn into me thinking about thinking about why I'm thinking something, which is probably a perfectly normal amount of thinking.

Anxiety makes me something of a homebody, but fortunately I really love being at home. I'm fairly shy too, although that's apparently a roll of the dice; sometimes I quietly lurk and sometimes I jump straight into a conversation like I've known everyone for years.

Writing has been part of my life for a long time. Back in the 2000s I spent years doing literate and novella-style forum roleplay and running RP sites, including Strawberry Panic: The Roleplay. I eventually stepped away for about a decade after a major life event, although apparently the writing bug never actually left. During that time I wrote a 120k+ word fanfic and started an original novel, which remains unfinished and mocking me from behind this very browser. I do not see it. I see nothing. My eyes are closed. I've recently started dipping my toes back into literate RP again, and it's been nice rediscovering something that used to mean so much to me.

And I suppose that's part of what this site is too. I wanted somewhere to put thoughts, photos, interests, little discoveries, and pieces of my life without all the noise and performance of modern social media. Social media without being terribly social, maybe.

A gallery (eventually), a blog, a bookshelf...just...a little corner of the internet that's mine.

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πŸ’ Quick Deets πŸ’

Current Obsessions

Roleplay, journaling, books, coding, and making this site cute.

Favorite Vibes

Witchy, romantic, cherry girl, fairy grunge, and nostalgic web.

Currently Reading

  • Stars Above
  • My Dress-Up Darling
  • Witch Hat Atelier
  • The Never List

Currently Playing

  • Baldur's Gate 3

Favorite Drinks

  • Coffee
  • Black Tea
  • Milk Tea Boba
  • Strawberry Lemonade

Favorite Foods

  • French Toast (Any Breakfast food really)
  • Cherries
  • Peaches
  • Chocolate (Especially with red fruit like cherries, raspberries or Pomegranate)
  • Cherry Sours Candy

πŸ’ A Little More About Me

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Nonbinary Any Pronoun Allosexual Androsexual Polyamorus with partners Leo Year of The Snake

❀️ Current Poly Relationship Web ❀️

In my blog, I will often refer to my partners. We're all Poly, so here's how it looks. Sorry for the code names. Privacy is important!

❀️ Me πŸ’

Me

I'm married to and live with L. I am also dating T, and D who live locally, and M who lives out of state, he is my Comet Partner.

❀️L 🎨

L

L and I live together. They are my nonbinary spouse!

L and I are both dating T. We're a very happy throuple!

❀️ T 🐈

T

T does not have a nesting partner and is only in a serious relationship with me and L. He does still have one or two casual partners outside of me and L who he sees occasionally.

❀️ D πŸ‘Ή

D

D has a nesting partner we will call K. But unlike the case with T, I am the only one in my polycule who is dating him, I am not involved with K at all. Though all of us hang out sometimes. D also has additonal partners. And for that matter K also has another partner besides D, and THAT partner has another partner besides K! --Hahaha don't get out your tin foil hat yet! We're almost done.

❀️ M πŸ’…πŸ»

M

M lives out of state from me and we talk often online. Sometimes we talk daily, sometimes we go weeks without talking at all. I saw him one time in person in 2025, but I don't know when or if we will get the chance to meet again. Because of these long stretches of inactivity, paired with no desire to break up, we are considered Comet Partners. circling in each other's orbit until the rare shining occurence when we get to come into contact. M has a spouse, and his spouse has another partner.

***If you're not used to being poly or seeing poly, you're just gonna have to trust me that it's all 100% out in the open and consensual. All the partners mentioned know about everyone else and fully consent to and are comfortable with the entire dynamic. β™‘